Have you ever wondered whatever happened to all the people
that you went to high school or college
with? I don’t mean close friends I just
mean folks in general that are not your friends on face book or social
media. School was great for me because
it was a time of big dreams. It was a
protected environment, I could sit and journal what I wanted to do in the
future.
I took an assessment of where former school mates were 10
years later and of course, there those that just took off, they seemed to have
everything together, they were not necessarily rich, but they were really on
the road to success and it showed. And
then, there was the other group, they hadn't quite figured out what they
wanted, were not happy with where they were in life, and it also showed.
So what made the first group more successful than the 2nd?
Well it turns out there some basic universal truths and principles that, if
employed, would allow everyone to reach their full economic potential no matter
what profession or career or business they choose.
Principle
of Hard work
My mother must said this to me over and over until she was
blue in the face, “You have to work hard G (my middle name) , in this life, if
you want anything, you have to work for it”. The older I get the more true this
principle becomes. It’s usually not
talent or education that makes you successful, its hard work. Hard work is more than showing up to work and
working harder or longer than anyone else, it’s about the quality of work.
Quality hard work requires more from you, it requires
bettering yourself, it requires thinking about your company or department and
thinking of way to increase production, or save the company money or think of
ways the company can make more money.
Quality hard work requires not
just showing up physically, but being fully engaged, those employees are
quality employees and are deeply valued by the companies they work for, they
are also rare so it doesn't take long to be noticed and promoted which leads to
more money.
Principle
of social skills and communication skills
Having good social skills is important because people want
to be around people they like, being personable makes you memorable, in a good
way. I used to have a real problem with
this principle because I thought people I worked with, who socialized with
their managers were really fake and were basically kissing their (you know what)
to get ahead. But as time has progressed,
I have started to think differently about having good social skills at work along
with great communication skills together.
Good social skills opens
doors for you. Building social bonds by
being positive and pleasant becomes valuable when you have to ask for a raise,
or a promotion or want to pitch a new Idea or product to clients or managers, the
social skills gets you a seat at the table, a face to face meeting and coupled
with good communication skills, it puts you in a position to sell yourself and
your skills and leverage them for more money.
Principle
of Discipline and self control
Every one of us has to work even though we don’t feel like
it. We have to get to work on time, we
have to execute tasks. Work is not
always exciting or sexy; it can be monotonous and mundane.
There is a really dangerous message out on
the blogs, TV and magazines telling people to “live your dream/passion” and “work
does not feel like work if it’s your passion”.
The problem I have with this “live your passion” movement is, that it is
very emotional, and emotions are temporary. What happens when this passionate
job becomes like all jobs, which is monotonous and mundane? Does that mean you
are doing the wrong thing? Should you
move on to your next passion? Unfortunately
most people just move on to the next thing that interests them. This jumping around
from career to career means, you never really get good at one thing, and
therefore never maximize your earnings in any one career, it also means, you are
always starting over and everyone knows, you make the least money, when you are
new to a career or starting a new business,
So stay disciplined and stick and, it will pay off eventually.
Principle
of good Partnerships
This is the part where most people do not want to talk
about, because it involves making a choice with heart and your head simultaneously. What am I talking about? Personal relationships, spouses and
significant others, who do you surround yourself with? In an Ideal world, you want a spouse or
significant other who shares the same values, and belief system around money
and hard work, in simpler terms, a saver should hook up with a saver and a
spender should hook up with a spender.
Likewise a hardworking person should hook up with another hardworking
person.
When you work hard, keep opening doors for yourself using
those great social skills and communication skills and maintain discipline and
self control, you will make money,
you will maximize your earnings, but
it is pointless to make the money if you cannot retain it, and having a partner
who does not share your goals or is not supportive, can erode all your hard
work, and all your great potential. I have
come to realize again, over time, that actions speak much louder than words and
talk is dirt cheap. Look at a person’s
habits before making any long term commitments, a lazy person will never tell
you they are lazy, but you can tell from their actions, a spender’s actions
will reveal who they are, without them ever speaking a word. So align yourself with those people whose
habits will allow you to be your most successful version of yourself in order
to maximize your earnings over your lifetime, and stay far away from those who will minimize your efforts.
Maximizing your earnings sounds easy in theory, but it is a
difficult task to execute. It requires
making a serious decision to be the most successful you that you can be, and
then recommitting to that decision every single day. It is not impossible though, and can be done;
all you have to do is make that decision to, for lack of better words, “Be all
you can be”.
What other principles do you think can increase your economic
potential? Share in your comment below, I would love to know what you think,
and we can all learn from one another.
Blessings
Bernice
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Great article, excellent points there. Choose career path, stay the course, be disciplined and produce quality work, master your trade and the chips subsequently all fall into place!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree, having a plan, and executing the plan always yields the best results.
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