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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Trust Fund Dreams...and Curses


Would you value a dollar that you did not earn? In my line of work I come across wealthy elderly clients, most of them who built their wealth from nothing.  They scraped and saved and sacrificed and were determined to provide for their children an easier life than they had growing up, and consequently tried to give their children everything they asked for.

This in turn has led to a generation that is highly stimulated by new experiences and technology, very easily bored, widely traveled,  seeks immediate gratification and is addicted to fun.  This generation, I should say my generation, (40 and under) believes that passion should be their guiding force through life, and if passion ceases, well then it’s time to move on.  This generation is broke but spends money as though it’s going out of style, Image is more important than it’s ever been, looking like you've made it and having a great lifestyle is more important than having the money to sustain that lifestyle,  it’s so very important to go to the newest restaurant and blog about it, or go on vacation thenrecord and share every detail on Instagram and Facebook and on and on.

In the next 30 years as baby boomers retire, the wealth that they accumulated will be transferred to my generation.  It is a scary thought, that as hard as our grandparents and parents worked to accumulate wealth, my generation may not be adequately prepared to handle a sudden influx of wealth.  We are too concerned with how we look to our peers, whether we are projecting the right image and so on and so forth.  Transferring money and assets to a generation like mine requires much planning and adequately preparing us for the responsibilities that are yet to come, otherwise things can go very wrong; a sudden windfall can be easily wasted on the newest toys or the next awesome trip or just deciding to retire because, work is a drag after all I no longer have passion for it right?

It really is not a new story, most family wealth disappears in 3 generations, and 60% of the wealth disappears in the 2nd  generation and 90% in the 3rd generation.

Question is how does my generation change this reality where money can become a curse instead of a blessing? How do we Invest and continue to grow our family legacies in order to pass something worthwhile to our children?

Step 1 Invest in your future
An Inheritance is an opportunity to build and grow on what your family had started.  One should have a big picture in mind of what you would like to do, how you would like to utilize the moneys and invest in the future.  Seek out professionals like financial advisers that can help you with financial products that would be beneficial to building your estate.  Do not get into anything you are not completely sure about and if you can’t think of anything put the money in a interest bearing CD or annuity (at least you while you decide what to do you will not be spending your inheritance!).  An Inheritance is also an addition to what you have going on, deciding to quit because you have always hated your job is not a good idea, try not let your emotions dictate your actions.

Step 2 Start paying down debts
The only way forward is to try and break from the shackles of the past.  Debt is a weight that needs to be dealt with.  I suggest start making arrangements to pay off some debts using a portion of the money systematically until the debts are gone.

Step 3 Have a little fun
My generation has been broke for a long time, considering the recession and massive layoffs.  A lot of folks I know moved back home with their parents and their kids just to be able to make ends meet.  For others the recession did not affect them financially but it did stress them out knowing they could be laid off at any moment.  A financial windfall takes the stress out of life; I say take a small portion (not more than 10%) of your estate and blow off some steam.  Do something that you will enjoy and make great 
memories.

Step 4 Create a legacy
Pass the gift forward.  Remember and honor the person who gave you an inheritance, remember what was important to them and try and fulfill their wishes.  Be very responsible about your gift so you can pass it on to the next generation but also do something good with what you have been given, give to a charity or a foundation and create a gift that keeps on giving.

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